Projection: We never need to prove what we are, but because of our sincerity our actions become an expression of our specialiites. Just like a diamond never needs to prove but its sparkle is its proof of the value it has. When we work with our specialities with sincerity, then we will never give excuses or have expectations, but use every situation as an opportunity to express our qualities.
Solution: If I ever find myself giving excuses for my wrong or negative behaviour or words, I need to remind myself of the goodness and specialities that I have. When I do this, I will be sincere for the use of my qualities under all circumstances.
Soul Sustenance
Anger Management
We normally experience pain or suffering in response to others' anger filled behaviour. Given below is a range of responses, the most common response to the least common response, the shallowest (depthless) to the deepest, check where you lie on the spectrum:
Avenging (Wanting to take revenge): where you want to bring upon the other the pain you have felt yourself, for which you feel the other person is responsible.
Punishing: where you wish to take the law into your own hands, even if only at a mental level.
Reforming: where you wish to change another's personality and behaviour.
Forgiving: where you want to do what you have probably been taught to believe is the right thing to do.
Forgetting: where you want to drop the past at all levels and get on with your life.
Karming: where you recognize and take responsibility for all your hurt because you understand that you always receive the return today of your actions yesterday (Law of karma).
Enlightening: where you realize that you were never hurt in the first place.
In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris
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