Wednesday, January 2, 2013

There is victory for the person who opposes the weaknesses instead of the person.

Message for the day

Expression: Instead of trying to win over a person who displays any negative qualities, one needs to oppose the negativity itself. the one who knows the art of doing this will never do anything to encourage the weakness int he other person but will provide all help to finish it fully.

Experience: Since I am able to look at the weakness only and am trying to findih it, i will be free from negative feelings of dislike and hatred. there would be a genuine feeling of love which in turn provides the right environment for the other person's growth.

Soul Sustenance

Ways Of Improving Communication

* Listen with both ears. I should be an active listener by tuning in fully and being present fully with the person and with the moment. If I am not, I listen through one ear and let it out of the other, or I only half listen, which finally creates misunderstandings.

* Understand where the other person is coming from. Do not just assume, imagine or judge; when we do this, our critical vision prevents others from expressing what they wish to say. Then, because of wrong or half-right assumptions, others are not given the possibility to improve, or express, outside the boundaries of what we think of them. To give others a true chance to express themselves, we must not place our own boundaries around them.

* Think before speaking. This is not something new, but however often we hear it, we forget to apply it. To think before speaking means to show consideration to the other and then we say the right thing, at the right time, in the right way.

(To be continued tomorrow….)

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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